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Become Better!

By closing the door on your past, locking it & throwing the key away, you are able to walk through new doors of opportunities to a brighter future!
But remember, they will always talk, they will say; look, she is a prostitute, she aborted, she is a drunkard, he is a womanizer, he is a failure. They will always talk, you can't stop them; deep inside your heart, you know you are a new person, the old is gone, your focus is on new higher ground.

Shame them with success, shame them with prosperity, shame them with with a beautiful strong family with cute kids, when they will look back in history, your history will have changed and the story will be different; "Look, she has a job, she has a husband, she has cute kids, she drives a car, she is blessed, he is a success story, I would like my sons to emulate him."
When this happens, their lives will still be stagnated, they will finally treat you with lots of respect and use you as a Role Model to their kids.

Believe - trust - become better!

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